You started the new
school year with great enthusiasm. The curriculum materials were
stacked neatly on the bookshelves. The schooling area was freshly
cleaned and tidy. Lesson plans were in place. Maybe you even made sure
all the pencils were sharpened! After a summer break, the children were
ready and enthusiastic to start again.
Well, that was last
month. Now reality crashes in on us. Maybe one of your curriculum
choices isn't working out so well. Your plans are still there, but its
a bit hard to execute on them. The pencils? Well the pencils are part
of the problem because they're all over the floor (and if that was the
only thing that was untidy in the house you'd rejoice)! And the darling
children who started with such enthusiasm are pushing back due to their
waning attention. So as you look out the window at the grey October
clouds, what goes through your heart?
OK, let’s get back to
basics. Why did you choose to home school your children? And in almost
all cases, the answer is because you desire to give your children the
very best. Maybe it’s the extra attention to help them achieve their
best academically. Maybe there are specific character traits you want
for your children. And perhaps you want to give your children the best
you can in a spiritual sense. Whatever the reasons, they’re still
there. And those reasons will continue to be there regardless of
curriculum disasters, planning failures, housework implosions and the
dreaded child-pushback.
So the basics haven’t
changed. The only thing that’s different are your circumstances. But
your circumstances, emotions and the ups and downs of life must not
change your convictions because they cannot change the reality those
convictions are founded upon. Homeschooling is not a panacea, but it is
a means by which you seek to bless your children. Keep going. Someday
they’ll thank you.
Shawn